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Matthew 22:12

Render Unto Caesar

‘Friend,’ he asked, ‘how did you get in here without wedding clothes?’ Matthew 22:12 · Berean Standard Bible
What It Means

Matthew 22:12, in plain English

The king asks, 'Friend, how did you get in here without wedding clothes?' The man has nothing to say.

Why it's here

He has no excuse. The clothes were provided. He just didn't put them on.

Who's speaking

The king asks a simple question, and the silence says everything.

Where it sits in the story

When grace is offered and refused, there's nothing left to say. The man stands there with no defense.

A Closer Look

The scholarly reading

The king addresses him as 'friend' (hetaire) — the same ambiguous term from 20:13 — and asks how he entered without wedding clothes. The man is speechless (ephimōthē, 'muzzled').

Language and setting

The man's speechlessness indicates he has no defense; the garment was available, and his lack of it was a conscious choice.

Voice

The king confronts the improperly dressed guest, who cannot defend himself.

Significance

Confronted by the king, the man has no excuse. The garment was offered; he simply refused to wear it.

In context

Matthew 22:10–14

10So the servants went out into the streets and gathered everyone they could find, both evil and good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests.

11But when the king came in to see the guests, he spotted a man who was not dressed in wedding clothes.

12‘Friend,’ he asked, ‘how did you get in here without wedding clothes?’

13Then the king told the servants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

14For many are called, but few are chosen.”

Read all of Matthew 22 — A wedding banquet, a trick question about taxes, and the greatest commandment — Jesus outmaneuvers every trap set for him.

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